Your Angels want you to stop helping people that wouldn’t do the same for you. Do you feel like you've been helping people that wouldn't do the same for you? It's time to focus on yourself. Here's how! Here are the eight signs that you are being manipulated and taken advantage of by someone close to you.
You’ll know that someone is taking advantage of your good nature if you see that you’re the one putting in all the effort. This person that’s taking advantage of you won’t reach out first, they’ll always wait for you to text or call and make plans. You’ll also have to be the one to make sure things are on track in the relationship. In short you’ll be the one taking responsibility for the whole relationship.
When someone calls you up and says it’s an emergency and they need to see you, of course you’re going to make a plan to see them. But if someone continually doesn’t respect that you have other things going on in your life it’s a completely different story. Make sure you aren’t giving people time you don’t have. You’ll be ruining your own life just to keep them happy and that’s exactly what your Angels don’t want.
Someone who’s taking advantage of you will always need to be at the center of attention. You’ll constantly be running after them and fulfilling their needs. They won’t even pay you any attention unless they’re happy. They won’t listen to you or take your needs into consideration until you’ve made sure that they are as happy as they can be. And that’s just not fair on you. So watch out for this type of person.
People who only think about themselves will never thank you for the things you do for them. Even if you go to the ends of the earth to meet their wants and needs and constantly put yourself last they won’t even utter the phrase. They’ll just think you owe it to them. They’ll just make you do more and more for them until you’re so exhausted that you can’t even do anything to take care of yourself or your own needs.
When you get into a friendship or relationship with someone who refuses to compromise watch out. They’ll be sure to start a fight any time things don’t go their way. And that’s not just going to put a strain on your relationship, it’s also going to cause you to lose yourself over time. A proper relationship is built on compromise. They can’t have their way all the time, just like you should have a say in what’s happening in the relationship too.
When someone doesn’t care about you they also don’t care about what’s going on in your life. If you find that the person you’re spending your time with just talks about themselves all the time and they don’t make time to listen to you or your stories you’ll know for sure that they’re playing a toxic role in your life. People who really love you will want to know more about you. They’ll want to know what types of food you like, or what your dreams are. If you don’t get that from a relationship you can be sure that it’s not good for you to stay there.
This counts for romantic relationships more than friendships. But if your partner or spouse is spending more time with other people than they are with you, you need to reevaluate the relationship. Do they even want to spend time with you or are they just using you for the perks they get for being in a relationship? The answer will be very clear after you take a good look at this list.
So let’s say you want to go to your favorite restaurant and you call your friend up and invite them to go. But then they say let’s rather go out clubbing. Sure, that’s fine. But the next time you want to do something the same thing happens. And it keeps happening… That means your friend doesn’t really care about you or what you want to do. All they care about is making themself happy.
